Just the two of us.

I feel like my blog is filled with so much pregnancy/baby stuff and Tenley that I haven't really talked about the one person who has made it possible for me to stay at home and enjoy all these moments with Tenley and relax during my pregnancy.

 

Life with Shea these past few months has been a whirlwind. In the past two years we've:

Dated

Been pregnant

Had Tenley

Moved

Got a new job that involves traveling (shea)

Got a car

Got pregnant...again
Went on our first family vacation

Quit a job&became a stay at home mom

Got an SUV

and here we are. Clearly we have been together longer than 2 years but thats just all of the major life changes that have happened...so far. In the past 2 years Shea and I have grown up together and done most things people in their late 20s have done. Ill be the first to tell ya, it has NOT been easy.

 

At first it was really hard being with someone who didn't express his emotions too well and there was times that I didn't feel like a priority or that important. Flash forward to now and its a completely different story. Tenley has the tendency to get very jealous when Shea gives me attention or shows any sort of affection towards me around her. I just about cried when he was holding my hand and she threw another one of her "get your hands off of momma" fits and he said

"No maam Tenley. Da-da loves momma. Momma is dada's favorite"

I know Shea loves me and that I should be his favorite person but it feels so good hearing him say that and he shows me it on a daily basis.

 

Our life has gone from late night dinner and movie dates to matinee movies and having dinner "dates" together which consists of cooking after Tenley falls asleep. Valentines presents have gone from HUGE flowers, chocolate, jewelry, shoes and dinner to average sized flowers and dinners with the 3 of us and I can honestly say I wouldn't change a thing. Its been a rough past few years but I wouldn't have wanted to go through this crazy ride with anyone else.